How To Tell A Girl You Like Her
So you want to
learn how to tell a girl you like her...
As guys, we’ve all been there haven’t we?
There’s a girl you’re really attracted to - who you really,
REALLY like - and you think to yourself, “If I could just tell her
how much I like her, then maybe I can persuade her to go out with
me”.
That’s the kind of logic we have swimming around in our heads as
guys. It all seems so LOGICAL to us.
But there’s a problem. A BIG problem.
When it comes to attraction, women respond more to EMOTION than
logic. It’s a girl’s emotions that ultimately decide which guy she
falls for, and who she rejects. ‘Logic’ has very little to do to
it.
In fact, if you try to tell a girl you like her you’re almost
GUARANTEED to screw up your chances with her. Telling a girl you
like her is just about the WORST thing you can possibly do at the
start of a relationship.
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Why?
Well let’s look at the whole situation from HER perspective, so
you can understand why it all goes horribly wrong for you when you
tell a girl you like her:
Imagine for a moment that you’re a beautiful woman. Guys give
you loads of attention all the time, always compliment you about
your looks, and they generally try to ‘win’ your attention and get
your approval with the things they say and do.
In fact, imagine that this happens every single day of your
life, until all those approval-seeking guys become one giant blob
of ‘sameness’ in your mind. You just lump them all together in the
same category in your head.
So when a guy she’s just met blurts out how much he ‘likes’ her,
she immediately thinks to herself, “Yawn - Here’s yet ANOTHER
boring and predictable guy telling me how much he likes me. And he
doesn’t even know me! He’s just controlled by his emotions like
every other guy out there. Yawn. Yawn. Yawn”.
Telling a girl you like her is like committing SUICIDE! Don’t do
it!
Not only will you ruin any chances by getting thrown into her
“just like every other guy” category, but you also put her in total
control of the situation. And that is totally unattractive to
her.
For the most part, women like to be led in relationships. They
appreciate decisions being made for them. So when you start telling
her how much you like her - and hand over control of the
decision-making - you lose out massively.
It’s a big no-no.
Remember, women are EMOTIONAL creatures. No amount of trying to
‘win her over with logic’ is going to ‘persuade’ her to like you.
Because it totally misses the part of her that governs how
attracted she feels about you: Her emotions.
So quit searching for information on how to tell a girl you like
her, and instead focus on learning approaches that actually work
with women in the real world. You need a way to separate yourself
from being “just like every other guy”, and for that you need a
different strategy.
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