How To Flirt With A Girl
Learning how
to flirt with a girl is a skill that you can learn very easily. All
that’s needed is a willingness on your part to experiment and
practice with the girls around you.
So what should you do first in learning how to flirt with
girls?
Well, believe it or not, the most important part of the art of
flirting is your ATTITUDE. That’s right, it’s not just about
flirting techniques (although we’ll cover some of those is just a
moment). Your success will live or die based on the attitude you
hold in mind as you flirt.
Create Tension:
And the key part of a successful attitude in knowing how to
flirt with a girl, is your mindset to CREATE TENSION. That’s right.
You want to focus on creating as much tension between yourself and
the girl you are flirting with.
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Now, if you’re like most guys, the idea of creating tension
might make you feel a little uncomfortable. Okay, very
uncomfortable! A lot of guys are already nervous when they interact
with a girl they’re attracted to, and the thought of building up
more and more tension is enough to make their head burst.
And then there are guys who are so afraid of being rejected,
that they just can’t imagine building up the tension because
they’re scared of making her angry.
It’s a natural human tendency to want to reduce tension and keep
situations harmonious and peaceful. But CREATING TENSION is just
something you’re going to have to deal with and get past if you
want to succeed in flirting with attractive women.
Be Playful and Curious:
The second crucial attitude you need to adopt in learning how to
flirt with a girl is one of PLAYFUL CURIOSITY. You want to be
curious about ‘what makes her tick’, and you want to be very
playful in the way you treat her and in the way you respond to her
behavior. (Again, we’ll cover examples of being playful in just a
moment). But for now just know that “playful curiosity” should be
front-of-mind when you flirt with girls.
Show Confidence:
And the third and final key attitude in knowing how to
flirt with a girl is being OVERLY CONFIDENT. You want to come
across as being very sure of yourself, what you say, and what you
do. And the reason you do this is to demonstrate your strength of
character to the girl, and to challenge her to being her ‘A’ game
when flirting with you. “Confidence” is a key element in attracting
women, so you’ll want to maintain this attitude at all times.
Obviously, none of these “attitudes” work in isolation. You want
to COMBINE them in a way that makes your flirting techniques easy
and effortless.
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So let’s now move on to the actual techniques you can use to
flirt with a girl by using all three of these attitudes and putting
them into action for yourself.
To find out more about flirting, see page 2 of how to flirt
with a girl right here: Flirting With Women.
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