How To Ask A Girl Out

Knowing how to ask a girl out all starts with your mindset and attitude. And if you can get these right, then asking a girl out becomes pretty simple and straightforward.

The problem for most guys is that they focus too much on the words they’re going to use, and not enough time on their overall approach.

Here we’re going to look at the key concepts to keep in mind when learning how to ask a girl out, as well as what NOT to do as well:

1) DON’T EVER ‘ASK’

A mistake most guys make is actually “asking” a girl to go out with them. So why do I call it a ‘mistake’? Well, think about it. Most women like men to take the lead when it comes to dating and relationships. And when you start “asking” a girl out, you’re throwing away your leadership qualities and asking her to be the decision-maker.

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This comes across as ‘weak’ and unattractive. You’ll do much better if you simply tell her what you are ALREADY doing, and then tell her she can come along if she wants to. This way, you maintain the leadership vibe and she’ll be happier following along.

2) DON’T BE SUBMISSIVE

Another terrible thing some guys do when they want to ask a girl out is this: They show submissive and apologetic body language and voice tones, as if they’re pleading to get her approval, nervous and really self-conscious.

Guys - women do NOT find this attractive at all. So don’t do it!

Again, the girls wants YOU to come across as confident, in control and willing to make decisions. So wipe this ‘submissive behavior’ from your brain and just behave more confidently.

Even if you have to ‘fake it’ at the start, it’s much better to keep pretending than to do something that turns her off immediately. And after a while of pretending, your confidence will become 100% real anyway. It just takes a bit of practice.

3) DON’T BE AVAILABLE AT ALL TIMES

Girls want to go out with guys who have busy lifestyles and plenty going on. So don’t suggest you’re available every single day of the week. The girl will interpret that as meaning as you don’t have anything going on in your life, and she’ll start questioning whether there’s something ‘wrong’ with you. Bad move.

Remember, women are forever looking for the ‘hidden meaning’ behind things. For instance, if you look scruffy she’ll start questioning your personal hygiene, and whether you know how to look after yourself. So don’t give her unnecessary reasons not to go out with you.

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Instead, here's how to ask a girl out: You want to mention a day for her to join you in an activity. And if she can’t make it, then mention something else at least few days later. This helps convey that you’re busy and have lots going on in your life.

To find out more about how to ask a girl out, see page 2 of this guide right here: Asking A Girl Out