First Date Questions

You want to be careful with ‘first date questions’ - in other words, the questions you ask a woman on your first date.

I say this because most guys are nervous on a first date.

They want to impress the girl they’re with. But they also don’t want to screw up their chances with her either. So a lot of guys end up asking her questions to keep the focus on her, and to avoid saying something that might offend her or cause her to not like them.

But this is a horrible mistake - And I’ll explain why in just a second.

So my advice to you when thinking up great first date questions is this: DON’T FOCUS ON ASKING QUESTIONS.

Why?

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Well think about things from her perspective for a moment:

If all you do is ask her one question after another, after another… Then the date will stop being a date, and it will seem more like an interrogation! And heck, if being asked questions is what she wanted, she could have just had a market research company call her instead.

And besides seeming like an interrogation, a bombardment of first date questions will stop her from getting to know you very much at all. I mean, what value are you offering to the date if you’re not opening up, sharing things about yourself, and making the experience fun?

Answer: None.

So just let go of this idea of thinking you need to have a long laundry list of questions to ask on a date.

There’s a much better approach to this, and I’m going to share it with you right now:

TEASE + BE PLAYFUL

One of the best things you can do for a woman is to make her feel great about herself. And teasing and being playful with her is a great way to achieve this while also demonstrating your attractive qualities of both leadership and confidence.

I say “leadership” because it’s YOU that is guiding the conversation. And I say “confidence”, because only confident guys feel sure enough in themselves to tease a woman. It communicates so powerfully to a woman that you know what you’re doing, and it acts as a really welcome and refreshing change to most of the dates she’s probably had with men.

And what should you do if SHE starts interrogating YOU with a bunch of first date questions?

Simple.

Just tease her about it and give playful answers.

For example, if she asks, “Are you seeing other women?”, you can say, “No… other men”.

Does this mean you can’t ask any questions at all? Of course not. It’s great to ask questions that demonstrate you are interested in getting to know her and get beyond her looks.

For example, some great first date questions might be:

“If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?”
Or,
“What did you want to be when you were 7?”

Just focus MORE on having fun, chilling out, relaxing and being playful. You’ll have much more fun this way. And so will she.

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